By focusing on what really matters:
You’ve spent years achieving what others admire — climbing the ladder, checking the boxes, doing everything “right.” But lately, you’ve started to quietly resent the life you built. Not because it’s bad. Because you built it for reasons that no longer feel like yours.
And despite everything you’ve built, you’re left wondering: Is this it?
The Second Summit is a 6-week group coaching cohort built around the reDAC framework — three key steps to help you figure out what you actually want now, and rebuild around it.
Success – get clear on what success means to you right now.
Priorities – design your days to reflect your values, not just your responsibilities.
Yourself – step into the identity that fits the man you’re becoming.
You don’t need to burn it all down.
You just need to rebuild it around what matters now.
I’ve been in your shoes before...

I’m a licensed structural engineer who spent over a decade designing $100M buildings, managing deadlines, and climbing the career ladder — and I was starting to resent the life I’d built. So I stopped performing success and started redefining it. Today, through Actively Human, I coach successful men who’ve built exactly what they were supposed to build, and are ready to build what they actually want.
“Working with Jake has truly been a transformative experience. Before working with him, I felt stuck. If you’re looking for a coach who can help you break through barriers, achieve a balanced life, and take meaningful action, I wholeheartedly recommend Jake. His guidance has been a catalyst for positive change, and I am confident he can help you reach your own aspirations.”
Luis G.“What I’ve really appreciated is realizing that life outside of work has to be more important. Our 1:1 time gave me the space to reflect deeply on my relationships with my wife and kids—something I wasn’t making time for before. Working together helped me pause, reset, and focus on what truly matters. It was a powerful and positive experience. Thank you!”
Cole L.“The most meaningful change for me has been learning to make time for the things I say are important to me. I loved writing the letter to myself — it filled me with excitement for my future and who I could become — along with getting clear on my own personal definitions of success and values. Working with Jake was amazing. He genuinely wants to help, and is willing to put in the time and effort to lift you up and give you the tools and support to succeed. He went above and beyond.”
Austin K.Tell me where you are. I’ll tell you how I can help. You decide whether The Second Summit is the right next step. No pitch, no pressure.
Six weeks. Small group. The reDAC framework — three key steps to figure out what you actually want now, and rebuild around it.
Walk out with clarity about what matters now, days that reflect it, and the identity to live it — on your terms this time.
You’re not starting over. You’re redirecting. You’ve already proven you can build what you commit to. Now let’s help you commit to what’s actually yours.
Your 6-day roadmap to stop resenting what you’ve built and start building what you want instead.